Tuesday, February 20, 2007

More On Our Deacon


Parishioners say Deacon's comments blame parents for sex abuses

Kaitlin Bell
February 20, 2007 - 12:27AM

McALLEN — Some members of Holy Spirit Catholic Parish are decrying a deacon’s comments on priests’ sexual abuse of children that he made during Sunday Mass.

The parishioners say church deacon Alvin Gerbermann told them parents — not the Roman Catholic Church — are to blame for any abuse their children suffer at the hands of priests.

They said they are angry and hurt by what they described as a yet another example of the Church failing to take responsibility for its role in the sexual abuse scandals that have rocked the institution in recent years.

“I think what we’ve been experiencing is that the diocese — and not only the Diocese of Brownsville, but other dioceses as well — seem to be projecting the reason for this on the people [who suffered the abuse], rather than on those who committed the abuse. And this homily seemed like just another attempt to do this,” said Harold Mosher, a longtime parishioner who heard the homily at Sunday’s Mass.

When reached by phone, Gerbermann refused to comment before he could even hear questions on the subject. “In that case there’s no comment. Bye,” he said, abruptly hanging up.

The homily, a portion of Mass explaining a selection of Bible readings, came the same day that members of a local Catholic lay group screened a documentary about the Church’s sex abuse scandals at Cine el Rey in McAllen. The Diocese of Brownsville, which controls the local PBS affiliate, had caught flak over its decision not to air the documentary during the station’s regular programming several weeks earlier.

Parishioners said they weren’t sure if Gerbermann’s timing was coincidental or intentional — but either way, he expressed opinions they said they did not care to hear.

Roland Quintanilla, who, like Mosher, has belonged to Holy Parish since its inception in the early 1980s, said he felt physically revolted by the deacon’s words.

Quintanilla said he has a close childhood friend who was sexually abused as a girl by their parish priest in Corpus Christi. He said the homily seemed just another case to him of blaming the victim — the last thing his friend or other abuse survivors need, he said.

“It wasn’t her fault and it wasn’t her parents’ fault,” Quintanilla said. “When I was hearing this, I just really — I started feeling sick to my stomach.”

Gerald Brazier, the president of a local Catholic reform group calling for more transparency in the Church, agreed. His group, the Rio Grande Valley chapter of Call to Action, helped arrange the Sunday screening of the PBS documentary. “Parents end up being just as much a victim as the young person was. So really when you step back, this is just blaming the victim,” Brazier said.

For his part, Mosher said he felt Gerbermann, who held his own parents up as exemplars because they never let him alone with a priest or nun, had painted the risk of sexual abuse by priests in overly broad strokes. Mosher said he counts several priests as his close friends and would never have considered telling his teenage daughter not to spend time with them.

Diocese spokeswoman Brenda Riojas took a different view of the problem of child sex abuse, saying that anyone could molest children and that both parents and the Church have a responsibility to protect them.

“The diocese believes strongly in the safety of a child,” she said. But she added, “It’s not just one group that we have to worry about.” Riojas declined to specifically comment on the homily, as she had neither seen nor read it. But she pointed to a program the diocese implemented several years back that trains all its employees and volunteers — not just priests — to ensure children’s wellbeing and safety.

Rev. Louis Brum, Holy Spirit’s pastor, did not return messages on Monday seeking comment.

This is not the first time controversy has brewed at Holy Spirit in recent years. The parish made local and national news when lay employees there and at three other Valley parishes unionized in 2002. Three of Holy Spirit’s employees later sued the Diocese, claiming they were fired in retaliation for their unionization. As part of a settlement, the Diocese reinstated the employees in 2003, but three of the employees left their jobs last fall, saying a bitter environment was too much to handle.

Quintanilla, who weathered that controversy, too, said he is still hoping Gerbermann will recant. “I would hope that he would apologize,” he said. “Because there might have been people in there that have been affected, too, and I was wondering how they felt, how they felt when they heard that statement.”
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Kaitlin Bell covers Mission, western Hidalgo County and general assignments for The Monitor. You can reach her at (956) 683-4446. For this and other local stories visit www.themonitor.com.



There was also an interesting comment in the Letters To The Editor section of the same newspaper:

To the editor:
There is an old adage that says, “Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but no one is entitled to their own facts.”

In a letter to the editors of local newspapers, Mr. Scott Walsh said “Hallman says the (clergy sex abuse) scandal was a pedophilia problem, when in fact most cases involved teenage victims and only a minute percentage involved pedophilia.”

Consider the following:

1) The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops commissioned a research study by the John Jay College of Criminal Justice entitled, The Nature and Scope of the Problem of Sexual Abuse of Minors by Catholic Priests and Deacons in the United States. On page 70 of this study, in table 4.3.2, it is reported that 60.07 percent of those abused indicated that the first instance of abuse occurred at age 13 or younger.

2) On the Web site MedicineNet.com the following appears as the definition of pedophilia: “People with pedophilia have fantasies, urges or behaviors that involve illegal sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger).”

Apparently Mr. Walsh is either ignorant of these two facts, considers 60 percent a “minute percentage,” or has come to the conclusion that his opinion carries more weight than facts.

Gerald Brazier
Call to Action-Rio Grande Valley
Edinburg

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Has our Church not learned a damn thing from their past sexual abuse problems?

I'll say again; how did our Deacon get so learned in the Catholic Church? Did he study under Fr. Louie?

One can sure understand why our Bishop sent him and our Pastor to Holy Spirit. Destroy, destroy, destroy!

Does anyone still remember what a WARM, WONDERFUL AND CARING Catholic Parish Holy Spirit was just a few years ago?

Why do parishioners at Holy Spirit continue to allow this to happen? Blind Faith? How stupid! OPEN YOUR EYES, PEOPLE!

Ben Salinas said...

"Rev. Louis Brum, Holy Spirit’s pastor, did not return messages on Monday seeking comment."

I am relieved. Fr. Louis also doesn't return others' phone calls.

Church Employee Who Has Seen It All said...

Just when you think it can't get any worse! I pity you poor people at Holy Spirit, I really do.

I don't know this deacon and I have never heard him preach, but goodness, to blame the parents in the context of a homily, what's next?

I sat through a homily by a visiting priest not too long ago and he also blamed the parents for the lack of vocations to the priesthood. The poor and uninspiring example of the local clergy is not the problem, we are! What else will they blame us for? What else matters more than our children?

Don't look to the diocese for redress, nor to the archdiocese of Houston, the papal nuncio nor the Holy Father himself. No one in a position to do something about it cares about what is happening in your parish and in our entire diocese. The Protestants and their Gospel of material prosperity don't interest me. (Our priests seem to have bought into it, though.) What other choice is there for a sincere believer who distrusts the clergy?

Anonymous said...

In response to Deacon Alvin's Statements. I am curious to know if he made it a point to warn couples that he has prepared for marriage about not leaving thier children alone for fear that clergy or staff could molest their children. Oh yes! and the RCIA candidates. Were they warned also, not knowing all the facts about being Catholic. Maybe his statements are just another reaffimation of his incompetence? Maybe it's time for him to step down and do what he does best, greet parishioners as they leave.

Anonymous said...

What a circus! When will it all end? Bishop! Are you enjoying this?